Shopping for holiday gifts isn’t always easy. Some people have no problem telling you exactly what they want for Christmas, while others are a little more difficult to shop for (especially in the beginning stages of a new relationship!). So whether you’re in a long-term relationship, the DTR phase, or an open relash — we’ve got you covered with our holiday gift guide!

Gifts for "We Just Started Dating"

Matana citrus body scrub
Photo by Anthropologie
Matana Citrus Body Scrub

If you haven’t been dating for long, then you’ve probably found yourself in that awkward stage wondering if you should get your potential bae a Christmas gift or not. Rest assured, opting for a non-over-the-top gift is the way to go. We love the idea of this Matana Citrus Body Scrub from Anthropologie. Everyone loves skincare—and you don’t have to break the bank!

Photo by Bloomingdales/Mokara
Voluspa Mokara Candle

When in doubt, a scented candle is a great Christmas gift because it brightens up and adds more aesthetic to any space. Opt for one of these beautiful Voluspa Mokara Candles with light, aromatic coconut scent. The gorgeous custom designed glass container adds an artsy touch. We’re all for it!

Gifts for "We're Getting Serious"

Photo by H&M
Plush Fleece Throw

For couples who are newly exclusive, check out this Plush Fleece Throw from H&M. It looks and feels luxurious (but you don’t have to spend a fortune). The blanket is soft and fluffy — perfect for cozying up together fireside or with a cup of hot apple cider over the holidays.

Yeti Wine Tumbler
Photo by Williams-Sonoma/Yeti

YETI Wine Tumbler

The YETI Wine Tumbler is the date night addition you never knew you needed. Now you can take your vino on the go or keep it crisp and cool while you Netflix and chill. Just be sure to grab two while you’re at it!

Fujifilm Camera
Photo by Urban Outfitters/Fujifilm

Fujifilm Instax Mini 11 Instant Camera

Whether or not you know if they’re “the one” yet, you can’t go wrong with a Fujifilm Instant Camera to capture all of your upcoming memories together. This thoughtful gesture shows you’re thinking about the future!

Gifts for "We're Committed"

Drunk In Love Game
Photo by Uncommon Goods/Megan Umansky and Corey Jones
Drunk in Love: A Couple’s Drinking Game

Feeling spicy? This couple’s drinking game is sure to kick the date night intimacy up a notch (and have you crying with laughter!). With card prompts like “correctly guess your partner’s love language or drink” and “give your partner a piggy back around the room or drink,” you’ll get to know each other on a deeper level than you ever thought possible. Keep an eye out for a couple naughty cards in there as well!

Bond Touch Couples Bracelet
Photo by Bond Touch

Bond Touch Long Distance Connection Bracelets

Calling all long-distance couples! These Long Distance Connection Bracelets are an absolute must-have. They vibrate to mimic the feeling of your partner’s touch and you can even send each other cute messages and love notes throughout the day.

Gifts for "Open Relationships"

Daily Dating Bae Planner
Photo by Bae Planner

Bae Planner

If you’re in an open relationship, what better gift than the Bae Planner this Christmas? Show your honey how much you love them by helping them organize their dating life. This modern planner will help them keep track of date night with you and their other potential baes. It’s also packed full of inspirational relationship quotes and journaling prompts!

Sur la table cooking class
Photo by Sur la table
At-Home Cooking Class

Would your partner love to learn cooking tricks of the trade from world-class chefs? Now they can do it from the comfort of home with these at-home cooking classes. Open relationships are all about sharing the love and joy, so what better way to do that that than through the love language of cooking? This class also makes for a romantic date night for two in if you want to take your date night from stale to epic!

We hope this gift guide inspired you to find some fun and thoughtful holiday gifts this season. No matter what dating stage you’re in, the options are endless if you get creative. And while you’re at it, don’t forget to pull out the ugly Christmas sweaters!

tl;dr:

This holiday gift guide offers suggestions for different dating stages:

  • Just started dating: Consider non-over-the-top gifts like body scrubs or candles.
  • Getting serious: Opt for cozy items like blankets or wine tumblers.
  • Committed: Explore couple's games, long-distance bracelets, or at-home cooking classes.
  • Open relationships: Consider a planner to help manage their dating life or an at-home cooking class for a fun date night.

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